It is my sincere advice to the recent or the long back divorced is to forget the past and maintain the cordial relations with the one whom you married. We all know that first impression is the best impression. In the same way believe the fact first marriage is the best relation. Marriage is a life long commitment. Though some times are tough in your life, but the rewards are more. Thousands of people settled with the marriage life and they forgot the thought of the love they thought in their in their mind. As you have already an experience with the first marriage, you can adjust with learning how to get your ex back according to the better and the worst happenings of the first marriage. So, you can judge what is good and bad. But, this won’t happen in the second one. And more over you will be humiliated and insulted in every matter often. So, I sincerely advice try to patch the cracks of your life instead beats, and lead a happy life. All the best to all the divorcees hoping they follow and they give importance to the marriage principle.